I learned that to save mine or save your marriage quick the focus must come off me or you and my other half or your other half as people and target the wedding itself. I learned that blame is the fuel of divorce and must be evaded. I learned that time is imperative and I wanted to say specific things and do specific things and behave in certain ways.

Inside only one or two days of doing all this, things started to change. My other half started viewing me and our wedding in an alternative way and had a change of heart about saving it. She became as committed as I was and after some difficult work, our wedding became better than either of us ever dreamed it might be. You are able to save your marriage quick even though you’re the sole one trying initially.

Be safe!